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The Rebuilding Programs has changed more than 100,000 lives. Now, it's your turn.
The Fisher Rebuilding Seminar was first created in the 1980s by Dr. Bruce Fisher. As he worked privately with people he realized that modern therapeutic methods weren't sufficient. So he began studying the issues to understand what people needed and what information and strategies actually worked.
He eventually simplified the issues in 19 steps for people to work through. Then, he organized them into a logical flow that anyone can follow.
Who We Help
There's no limit to circumstances and obstacles that arise in life, and there's very little that we can't help within regards to the emotional wounds of divorce. It has been said that divorce is the second most difficult situation in life. Dealing with it takes the right combination of support, information and guidance.
At the end of the day, heartbreak is heartbreak. It leaves no one untouched. Whether you are early in the process or divorced for 20 years the wounds need to healed. Nevertheless there are unique circumstances depending on where you are in the process.
Considering Divorce
When you don't know what is going to happen it can leave you in "no-man's land". What we know is that if you do nothing, nothing will change. So, if you want to reconcile then you need to focus on you first. We do that by giving proven tools that will help you understand yourself and your partner better. We also give you a way to take the emotion out of the equation so that you can peacefully and thoughtfully make the right decision and move forward with confidence.
Divorcing/Separated
Divorce has been referred to as having a bomb go off in your personal life. Everything is affected. Being with others that are going the same process gives you a network of friends that you can actually talk to. Plus you will get the tools and guidance to release the pain gracefully so that you can turn the page. People in the divorce process often feel very alone and our community of support gives you an instant support network that you can lean on.
Divorced
Once the papers are signed there is no option other than to move forward. Sometimes the wounds are more obvious to people that have been divorced for months, if not years, to see that the wounds don't heal until they are dealt with. Divorcees often report that they are stuck in the 5 Obstacles to Letting Go.
In fact, a recent study showed that typically people feel WORSE 10 months after their divorce than 2 months after their divorce.
Men and Women
and anyone in between
Often people want to be with their "own". They want to feel comfortable sharing and dealing with their healing with others that will understand. It's natural to find a tribe where you feel safe.
In our programs we believe that if we divide people into groups they miss out on perspective. They don't get to hear from the "other side". They reinforce their self limiting beliefs.
So, we encourage groups to unite, rather than divide. Often the right people show up in your class and they are exactly what you need, regardless of how they identify.
Sexual Orientation
Heartbreak affects everyone. If you are human you have thoughts and feelings. You have an identity. You have relationships. These things don't change based on who you are with. We support people of all orientations, beliefs, and choices.
This program is about being human. If you can align with that concept then we would love to have you!
Age
Whether your marriage was long or short does not matter. People often say before they start our program, "my life is over", (even people in their 30s).
As you get older your priorities change. It isn't about the kids or what you will do for a career. It is about finding your true worth. It is about learning "what your soul needs". This is a paradigm shift, to be truly, authentically happy - regardless of age.
Create Your Divorce Recovery Plan
Step 1: Take our free divorce adjustment self-test (button below).
Step 2: You will get an "emotional weather report" by email on how you are doing in 6 key areas of divorce adjustment.
Step 3: Stay tuned for further information by email on what your scores mean and what you can do to start feeling better fast.
Step 4: Sign up for a free consultation to review your scores (button below).
Step 5: Sign up for a Fisher Rebuilding Seminar(TM) on the Classes tab.
Step 6: Sign up for the divorce support group for support until the next seminar starts on
February 5, 2025 at 6:30 pm. Call (925) 787-8865 to sign up.
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Divorce Demystified: Discovering the Ideal Path - Support Groups or Recovery Seminars?
Divorce Demystified: Discovering the Ideal Path - Support Groups or Recovery Seminars/Workshops?
Introduction: Embracing Support in Divorce Recovery
Divorce is undeniably one of life's most challenging experiences typically ranking 2nd behind the death of a loved one. The emotional rollercoaster can leave one feeling lost and overwhelmed. Fortunately, there are avenues of support available, tailored to your unique needs. In this article, we'll explore the differences between Divorce Support Groups and Divorce Recovery Seminars/Workshops, helping you find the right path toward healing.
Defining Divorce Support Groups: A Shoulder to Lean On
Divorce Support Groups are like a warm embrace during a storm. These gatherings offer a safe space where you can openly share your feelings, fears, and triumphs with others who truly understand. Think of it as a circle of friends who become your pillars of strength. One of the key defining characteristics of a support group is that the participants are encouraged to share and learn from each other.
Some Divorce Support Groups are timebound while others are ongoing. Many offer loosely structured curriculum while others offer a formal set of topics. Another variable among groups is the level of training the leaders have. In many cases the leaders may have no training but are just caring people motivated to help others. In other cases, the group may be led by a mental health professional. If this matters to you I would encourage you to do some research before joining a group.
Benefits of Divorce Support Groups
Shared Experiences: Hearing others' stories reminds you that you're not alone in your struggles.
Emotional Catharsis: Expressing your emotions in a supportive environment can be incredibly liberating.
Sense of Community: Building connections with people going through similar situations fosters a sense of belonging.
Some helpful Content: Presentation of relevant topics. Content can vary greatly so do some research before joining a group.
I have personally witnessed numerous people find immense comfort from support groups. Sharing their stories helped them to heal and gave them the courage to face the future. I have also witnessed a number of group participants who were grateful for the group but who still needed a higher level of support and a much longer exposure to the support group for healing to take place.
Understanding Divorce Recovery Workshops: Guided Healing and Growth
Divorce Recovery Seminars/Workshops tend to present well organized and structured material tailored to the emotional needs of those who are divorcing. Generally led by experienced and well-trained facilitators, these workshops offer structured activities and therapeutic techniques, guiding you toward healing and personal growth. In some cases, they also offer individual coaching.
Benefits of Divorce Recovery Workshops
Structured Approach: Workshops offer a step-by-step process for emotional healing and personal discovery.
Expert Guidance: Skilled facilitators provide personalized attention, offering coping strategies and tools for transformation.
Deep Emotional Healing: Formal psychological interventions and mindfulness can promote profound emotional healing.
Coaching: Access to coaching is often included.
Feedback from workshop participants often suggests that workshops equip participants with coping skills and a newfound sense of self-worth, empowering them to embrace life after divorce. The structured approach and the level of facilitator training appear to offer a greater potential for healing.
Choosing the Right Option: A Personal Decision
The choice between a Support Group and a Recovery Seminar/Workshop depends on your individual needs and preferences. Consider your emotional state, learning style, and commitment level.
Support Groups or Workshops: Which Is Right for You?
Support Groups: Ideal for those seeking immediate emotional support and a sense of community.
Recovery Seminars/Workshops: Suited for individuals looking for a structured approach, expert guidance, and transformative healing.
Conclusion: Embracing the Journey Ahead
In the realm of divorce recovery, no one-size-fits-all solution exists. Both Support Groups and Recovery Seminars/Workshops offer invaluable support. It's about finding what resonates with you, guiding you toward healing, resilience, and a brighter tomorrow.
Remember, your healing journey is unique. Embrace the support that aligns with your needs, and know that, with the right companions by your side, you can weather the storm and emerge stronger, wiser, and ready for a new chapter in life. If you initially choose a support group, you can always move to a recovery seminar/workshop if you want more help.
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