The Proven Process

The 4 Stages

The Rebuilding Programs has changed more than 100,000 lives. Now, it's your turn.

The Fisher Rebuilding Seminar was first created in the 1980s by Dr. Bruce Fisher. As he worked privately with people he realized that modern therapeutic methods weren't sufficient. So he began studying the issues to understand what people needed and what information and strategies actually worked.

He eventually simplified the issues in 19 steps for people to work through. Then, he organized them into a logical flow that anyone can follow.

The 19 "Blocks"

Everyone's circumstances of their divorce is unique, but the effects are similar. Dr. Bruce Fisher created a step-by-step structure that walks people through each step or "block". He called this "climbing the mountain". At the top, is freedom. For one person a particular block may take 5 minutes. For another it is "the" block that they are stuck on. By giving you a map and the right guidance from an expert, you are able to rebuild your life, very quickly.

The 4 Phases

The 19 steps can be daunting to people that are overwhelmed. Rest assured that it isn't as hard as it looks. In fact the process can be simplified into 4 major phases.

01

Thinking

Our thoughts can create our suffering. Having the right mindset and learning how to shift your thoughts so that you are the victor, not the victim is life changing. When you are in control you are strong and resilient.

02

Feelings

Anger, grief, loneliness, shock, anxiety and more are feelings. Yet most people don't really know WHAT they are feeling, nor what to do with them. When you allow yourself to turn toward your feelings you are more alive and engaged. What you feel is real!

03

Identity

Many people "lose themselves" in their relationships. Then, when the relationship ends they simply don't know who they are. By reconnecting with yourself, maybe for the first time, you become centered and solid. You are authentically you.

04

Relationships

The first 3 phases set the foundation for this phase. They are directed inside. The last phase is about your connections with others. You will learn how to build healthy, meaningful and deeply satisfying relationships.

WITH THE 10-WEEK GROUP PROGRAM YOU WILL RECEIVE:

  • 20-25 Hours of Live, In-class Learning

  • Class Materials: Including a textbook and workbook (over 200 pages of printed information)

  • Access to a video library so that you can learn and grow on your own schedule as well.

  • Weekly calls with your peers to give and get support from others also committed to recovery.

  • 2 30-Minute private calls with your facilitator (one at the beginning and one at the end)

Create Your Divorce Recovery Plan

Step 1: Take our free divorce adjustment self-test (button below).

Step 2: You will get an "emotional weather report" by email on how you are doing in 6 key areas of divorce adjustment.

Step 3: Stay tuned for further information by email on what your scores mean and what you can do to start feeling better fast.

Step 4: Sign up for a free consultation to review your scores (button below).

Step 5: Sign up for a Fisher Rebuilding Seminar(TM) on the Classes tab.

Step 6: Sign up for the divorce support group for support until the next seminar starts on
February 5, 2025 at 6:30 pm. Call (925) 787-8865 to sign up.

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Divorce Demystified: Discovering the Ideal Path - Support Groups or Recovery Seminars?

November 10, 20234 min read

Divorce Demystified: Discovering the Ideal Path - Support Groups or Recovery Seminars/Workshops?

Introduction: Embracing Support in Divorce Recovery

Divorce is undeniably one of life's most challenging experiences typically ranking 2nd behind the death of a loved one. The emotional rollercoaster can leave one feeling lost and overwhelmed. Fortunately, there are avenues of support available, tailored to your unique needs. In this article, we'll explore the differences between Divorce Support Groups and Divorce Recovery Seminars/Workshops, helping you find the right path toward healing.

Defining Divorce Support Groups: A Shoulder to Lean On

Divorce Support Groups are like a warm embrace during a storm. These gatherings offer a safe space where you can openly share your feelings, fears, and triumphs with others who truly understand. Think of it as a circle of friends who become your pillars of strength. One of the key defining characteristics of a support group is that the participants are encouraged to share and learn from each other.

Some Divorce Support Groups are timebound while others are ongoing. Many offer loosely structured curriculum while others offer a formal set of topics. Another variable among groups is the level of training the leaders have. In many cases the leaders may have no training but are just caring people motivated to help others. In other cases, the group may be led by a mental health professional. If this matters to you I would encourage you to do some research before joining a group.

Benefits of Divorce Support Groups

  • Shared Experiences: Hearing others' stories reminds you that you're not alone in your struggles.

  • Emotional Catharsis: Expressing your emotions in a supportive environment can be incredibly liberating.

  • Sense of Community: Building connections with people going through similar situations fosters a sense of belonging.

  • Some helpful Content: Presentation of relevant topics. Content can vary greatly so do some research before joining a group.

I have personally witnessed numerous people find immense comfort from support groups. Sharing their stories helped them to heal and gave them the courage to face the future. I have also witnessed a number of group participants who were grateful for the group but who still needed a higher level of support and a much longer exposure to the support group for healing to take place.

Understanding Divorce Recovery Workshops: Guided Healing and Growth

Divorce Recovery Seminars/Workshops tend to present well organized and structured material tailored to the emotional needs of those who are divorcing. Generally led by experienced and well-trained facilitators, these workshops offer structured activities and therapeutic techniques, guiding you toward healing and personal growth. In some cases, they also offer individual coaching.

Benefits of Divorce Recovery Workshops

  • Structured Approach: Workshops offer a step-by-step process for emotional healing and personal discovery.

  • Expert Guidance: Skilled facilitators provide personalized attention, offering coping strategies and tools for transformation.

  • Deep Emotional Healing: Formal psychological interventions and mindfulness can promote profound emotional healing.

  • Coaching: Access to coaching is often included.

Feedback from workshop participants often suggests that workshops equip participants with coping skills and a newfound sense of self-worth, empowering them to embrace life after divorce. The structured approach and the level of facilitator training appear to offer a greater potential for healing.

Choosing the Right Option: A Personal Decision

The choice between a Support Group and a Recovery Seminar/Workshop depends on your individual needs and preferences. Consider your emotional state, learning style, and commitment level.

Support Groups or Workshops: Which Is Right for You?

  • Support Groups: Ideal for those seeking immediate emotional support and a sense of community.

  • Recovery Seminars/Workshops: Suited for individuals looking for a structured approach, expert guidance, and transformative healing.

Conclusion: Embracing the Journey Ahead

In the realm of divorce recovery, no one-size-fits-all solution exists. Both Support Groups and Recovery Seminars/Workshops offer invaluable support. It's about finding what resonates with you, guiding you toward healing, resilience, and a brighter tomorrow.

Remember, your healing journey is unique. Embrace the support that aligns with your needs, and know that, with the right companions by your side, you can weather the storm and emerge stronger, wiser, and ready for a new chapter in life. If you initially choose a support group, you can always move to a recovery seminar/workshop if you want more help.

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Jerry Mellin

Divorce Coach and Certified Fisher Rebuilder Seminar (TM) Facilitator

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